Well the day has finally come to end my journey and return back to the US. I have had a great time but I am definitely ready to come home. We had our last visit the Tata today and it was fortunately a short one. We spent some time looking at things they were working on and they seemed very eager to prove to us the quality and complexity of work they can accomplish. India was an eye opening experience for me and I have a new appreciation for life in the US. Life can be hard for people in India and the poverty here was very shocking. After you get over the culture shock I have learned that Indian people are very kind and you couldn't ask for better hosts. There were 2 guys in particular, Depal and Vishwas, who were constantly by our sides making sure we had everything that we needed. They provided cars and drivers for anything that we wanted to do and I really don't know how we could have made it without them. The streets here are so crazy I can't imagine if I had to get behind he wheel and brave it on my own. Indian people are much more observant and all you had to do was mention somewhere you wanted to go and before you know it they would make arrangement for you to go there. Sometimes you even felt a little bad because maybe you were just making conversation. They would notice little things like if you looked at your watch they would believe you were ready to leave or maybe if you yawned during dinner they would suggest you go to your room to rest. They were very concerned that you had a good time and all your needs were met.
I discovered that India is a place of extremes. You are either very wealthy or very poor and there isn't much in the middle. Last night I asked them what kind of wage you could expect starting out in the CG business here and I was a little shocked to learn that the average starting salary is 12000 rupees per month. That comes down to about $75 per week in US dollars. We spent a lot of time in the resort hotels around the airport and it is a place that most Indians could never afford to go.
We asked many questions about life in India. There are no grocery stores here like Safeway or Raleys. You buys most of your day to day goods at stores that are outdoor on the streets. If you need fruit you go to the fruit stand. They told us that many things are delivered door to door. So once a week the milk guy comes around and that is how you get your milk. Many of the goods are sold at the train stations. It is easy for the sellers to take the train and then they set up shop on the street near the stations. Things like clothes are expensive for Indians, at least the quality stuff.
One of the guys we met was getting married soon so we learned a lot about that too. The Indian wedding ceremony lasts much longer than the ones in the US. The minimum seems to be an entire day and some stretch out over several days. If you want to get married you must do it on a holy day and there is a specific time too. The window of time for the vows can be as short as 15 minutes. Here they exchange rings for the engagement but during the wedding ceremony you exchange a ring of flowers much like a Hawaiian Lei. The men wear a very ornate crown and every dresses in very brightly colored clothes.
Family is very important here. Most families have several generations sharing the same home and you don't leave until you get married. If you are a man you don't leave at all and you have your wife move in with your family.
Ironically housing is very expensive here because there are so many people there is a shortage of space. A typical one bedroom apartment costs about $400 per month which doesn't sound so expensive until you consider that the average person might only earn $400 per month. We know 1 guy who left ILM to move to India to become the president of a visual effects company here. He was unhappy to discover that to buy the kind of house you are used to living in the US is 1 to 2 million dollars.
It has been a great experience coming here but I have to be honest that it is hard to imagine coming back here for anything other than business. The people here are wonderful but out on he streets things are very different. They told me that they were very proud of something they called the 'spirit of Mumbai'. The spirit of Mumbai is that everyone feels like one big family here and people care about each other. He told me a story that one day there was a big power outage here and the trains were forced to stop running. A lot of people can't afford cars here and millions use the train everyday. He said the result was gridlock on the highways and it took people 10 or 12 hours to go a very short distance to their homes in a cab or a 3 wheeled rickshaw. He said the people would come out of their houses to offer tea or food to the motorists who were going no where.
So in the end I learned a lot about the people that we are doing business with here in India and I think it will go along way toward creating a good business partnership. It will be much nicer having a face to put to the person on the other end of the phone calls and the emails. We have the afternoon off to pack and get ready for the long trip home. We leave at 12:30 am on Thursday morning. We have 2 stops, one in Singapore and one in Seoul, Korea. It will take somewhere in the neighborhood of 24 hours and I am not really looking forward to it. I do want to get home though so if I am lucky I will be able to sleep a lot. I should arrive in SF around 12:30 in the afternoon on Thursday and I am sure it will take a couple of days to get over the jet lag. It was great coming here but it will be just as great getting home.